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Greg Norman (the golfer) just joined my company November 11, 2011

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At our ages, we need to see some new country, play golf and eat great food.

I have been telling you for a long time that Linda and I are involved in a top quality business.  I'm going golfing. Call me and I'll tell you when and how.

Last week, Greg Norman, joined as an Associate with us.

When a successful International business guy like him sees something in your company, that’s got to be a good thing, right?

Norman said that when you look at the right opportunity, with a product that helps you feel better (like you’ve been feeling since you started using MAX GXL) and it’s a really good business model, then you owe to the people who depend on you to give it a look.

You can watch his entire interview here.

Anyway,  I put a picture of a golf course on this blog so you would know that when Greg Norman golfs at the next MAX event.  I’m going to be there.

Why don’t you come along.  Since I know you golf like these guys, I won’t keep score.

Give me a call.

Talk soon

Best always

We have the magic that will rule the world November 1, 2011

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don’t miss out on this thing.  you can learn more here.

 

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In The Studio September 29, 2011

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I was able to get in the studio with Kelly Brown and put a couple of pieces together.

 

America is Beauti July 2, 2011

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I reconnected with a dear friend just now.  Jed Moffit

Even as these words fall on the page I am listening to his trio make incredible music.  Take a moment to listen if you want to be inspired.

I met Jed when we were both young idealist musicians.  I was an entertainer who was working on the road with my band and needed to change keyboardists.  I cannot recall how the fates put Jed and I together, his home Fremont, California and mine Marsing, Idaho, but we met and the city boy began playing piano in the country boy ‘s band.  It was a journey that took us to every Holiday and Ramada Inn in the western United States and Canada.  (Maybe not every one.  We were cancelled in Red Deer, Alberta and not paid in Castlegar, British Columbia, but plenty.)  We were a working club band and we worked a lot.  Our last year on the road I sang six nights a week for 46 weeks.  That is a lot of tippy patrons, requests for Proud Mary and Color My World and beautiful drives between jobs.

Ours was a journey of youth, music, family and dreams.  We experienced America.  We saw the mountains and prairies and met some of the best people I have ever known in spite of beer stains and cheap hotel rooms. Ever since those days, through every corporate gig,  freelance script, public relations publication, or video shoot I have ever produced,  even working with people like Marie Osmond, Hugh Downs, Larry and Shawn King, Jonathon Goldsmith (the Dos Equis man), Gary Burghoff, Dan Clark and a hundred others, I have always felt that in my heart of hearts I was nothing more than a saloon singer holding down a day job.

We had no government grant; only Frank Ciciulla, our Italian manager to suggest changes and keep us employed.

We had no corporate funding; just a couple of vans to carry equipment and CB radios to keep from getting lost.

No internet.  No cell phones.  No video games or DVD players to mindlessly occupy our minds.  It was wonderful.

We were alive.  Linda and I newly married.  We had our music, our dreams, and a place to play music for six nights a week.  We usually worked four one-hour sets a night and traveled each Sunday to the next gig. It was like being unemployed but with sufficient money for food, lodging and travel to the next job.

Linda and I were on the road for about five years before the needs of babies required a house for us, friends and school for them.

Here is why it was, and I love, America.

The band began with an idea and ended when we chose to move to the next phase of our life. While we made great club music and held the crowd so they could freely consume adult beverages, the call of sweetheart and children required a grander vision and a new direction.

To give you an idea of how successful I was as a nightclub singer as Rodney Dangerfield would say, “At the time that I quit I was the only one who knew that I quit.”

Were we more simple then?  Did the world swirl around us then like it does now or did we simply not pay attention?

I suggest that the cacophony of political talk, economic unrest, and constant access to media has changed all of us, the mellowing of time notwithstanding.

I remember a clarity of purpose then that I struggle to reclaim now.  Nothing is a more lovely time than driving through a clear starry night with the love of your life dozing next to you and the most glorious country on the planet rolling past your view.  The exhilaration of living, doing, and following dreams made those days seem euphoric.

I suggest that in this present world of connectivity, we need to disconnect.  To seek silence.  To reflect on what we have and who we are.  Instead of finding so much fault with so many others we will never meet and can never change, perhaps it is time to change only us.  To find the sought for existence of our ancestors.

My great-great-great grandfather, Samuel Fuller, stepped from the firm soil of his native England onto the deck of the Mayflower to find the same thing that I sought by climbing into my Ford Van; freedom, an opportunity to freely follow dreams, raise children, love a good woman, to believe and live the way that I want rather than in compelled circumstances of our non- choosing.

The essence of freedom is the capacity to choose.  I chose to follow a dream, to raise a family, and seek quiet contemplation while on the journey. Fortunately, I was in a place that allowed me to do that. I know America.  I’ve seen her and she is beautiful.

Why are These People in Charge June 28, 2011

Posted by Michael Clapier in Politics, Popular culture, talk radio.
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I just read that the Obama campaign will raise $1 billion to re-elect the man who brought us inflation, a third war, the highest unemployment in 80 years, and more debt than every other president before him combined.

What?

Why Are These People in Charge 06/28 by Michael Clapier | Blog Talk Radio.

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Play It Backwards June 28, 2011

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I first read Michael Medved’s landmark book Hollywood vs. America, nearly twenty years ago. You can read an excellent review here.  I then  had the opportunity to hear Mr. Medved speak and still count my autographed copy a favorite.

While reading this book I began to recognize the difference between popular culture and the very different world of family I  had personally experienced. I liked my parents and siblings.  I loved where we lived and knew that material things were not the substance of who we were.  We grew up with not much but everything.   Not much in terms of fancy cars, boats, or houses, but everything in joy, work, and meaning.

I suppose the addition of years, responsibility, children and life also played into the creation of new attitudes, but I found the first reading of Medved’s book compelling.

At the time I was working with a company producing movies specifically for family entertainment, and needed to better understand for the families who we served what was happening in the larger context of impact,  indoctrination, and acceptance of non-traditional values.

I am an Idaho product of the 60’s brought up on John Wayne and Cheyenne Bodie.  I even have a cousin named Bodie who raises the finest natural grown (organic) beef in the country.  You can see why my cousin Bodie Clapier is the real deal here. Scroll down to the pictures.  You will see we Clapier’s were country before country was ever cool. So it’s only natural that heroes like Audie Murphy, John Wayne, and Roy Rogers would certainly vanquish the bad guy and protect the virtue of the women.

Some will say that honoring virtue is a quality for a former time.

Others add that people never lived that way.

But I know that they did, and believe that now we must and that society will be better when we do.

While my coming of age was coming, I was a fan of Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young, brilliant singers with pertinent social sensibilities.  I still am.  The first time I ever heard Our House, I played and replayed it for hours.  I was a young teenager, beginning to feel my oats as Uncle Gene would say, and in love with love.  I projected all the simplicity and beauty of their voices and that song into my yearning for my own home.  I was growing dissatisfied with the home of my childhood.  I was on my own at 17.

But while the beauty of their voices lifted me.  I will never wish the journey that David Crosby’s self indulgence took him on and hope that he has finally found peace and good health.  The man sure can sing.

I remain a George Carlin fan even when the bile of his cynicism stole all his joy.  Al Sleet, the hippy, dippy, weatherman and cast of crazies broadcasting the news remains hilarious.

My favorite Carlin moment however, came when he recreated Queen for a Day, a television show where people would describe the horrendous story of their lives.  The winning contestant was crowned “Queen” and received a slew of gifts.

Among the delights of the woman Carlin parodied were comments like this while pleading her case as most pitiable:

“We are living in a no parking zone.”

“We have to move everyday because of the alternate side of the street regulations.”

“They towed away my oldest boy the other day.”

Perfect.

And when asked what she needed if she won.  Her answer?

“A set of golf clubs.”

It wasn’t until the 70’s that Hollywood lead our culture in an upheaval directed at turning traditional values upside down.  Even today, many of our most popular movies have a “bad” guy who is played as a sympathetic character.  Here is an interesting list.

I believe that art should inspire, uplift, enlighten, and edify.

Popular culture believes and acts in such a way as to challenge, mock, question, and tear down.

Many times the most defiling artists are the most recognized and lauded.  I want to stand that notion on its head.

In a world where bad is portrayed as good, lust as a substitute for love,  sex an audition for the prom, cheating honorable as long as you get away with it, adultery as a justifiable remedy for poor relationships, and truth as an outdated concept at best and an impossible standard at worst because it generates exclusion, it is time for a new choice.

We can never destroy.  We can only embrace good and realize that the the way to peace, joy, and happiness is not found in right or wrong.  I can never dictate your journey.  I only know, from my personal experience, that goodness is found in doing right while removing error, seeking truth while discarding baggage, and surrounding ourselves with stimulus, friends, and contemplations that support a similar journey

Popular culture and much of mediated popular culture disguises the generation of happiness in a cloak of despair.

It’s time to play it backwards.

An Investment Paying Huge Dividends June 10, 2011

Posted by Michael Clapier in little league, parenting.
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While making my mid-day pilgrimage from office to toaster oven, I walked by my nineteen year-old son’s computer.  The active screen saver was rolling pictures of him, taken by his sister, in academic and rather formal poses.  He leaves today for two years of missionary service.  My first impressions were those of a proud father. He is a good looking boy, (takes after his mother on that one), and the photos were clear, interesting, and well composed, but the thought that gave me a start was seeing and consequently knowing what he has become, and remembering how much I have invested in him.  Beyond money.  I have, with certainty and purpose, put time and effort into the raising of my children.

My mind flashed to the many hours that he and I were together through little league, family outings, holiday celebrations and the thousand other moments when we interacted within the cherished chaotic environment of our home.  I remembered tripping his infectious laugh with classic Three Stooges, W.C. Fields and Frank Capra films.

I reflected upon the hundreds of times I stood in his corner as he wrestled in competition, cheering his victories and consoling his losses.  I smiled at memories of baseball games on the beach and stories told before bed.  My investment was my time.  The return on that investment the quality of his person.

On incident at twelve mirrored the power of many others.  He was having a hard time dealing with adversity.  When things went wrong in a game or a match, he got mad.  During this particular little league season he was quick to anger when he failed to get a hit.  On the morning of the “big” game, against the rival team, whose pitcher was his best friend, I took him and my two other sons to the batting cages.

He grew more angry with each missed pitch until he could not even swing.  After a while, I took him aside and said simply that the anger had to stop.  Missing is part of trying.  There is no shame in missing.  The shame lies in letting the anger win because when you are angry you can’t step back into the effort and swing one more time.  He was doing a great job of being upset and a poor one of fixing his ability to put the bat on the ball.  He reluctantly settled to my counsel and agreed to try again.

We soon corrected the couple of small things that were happening in his swing.  He is a great athlete and left the cages with confidence and a new commitment to stay in the moment, try his best and be content with what  happens.

Later that day my son was blessed.  He came to bat in the bottom of the last inning with two outs and his friend on the mound throwing.  He missed the first pitch.  Second pitch. He missed.  And then the miracle.  He stayed in the moment and swung again.  I was so nervous for him that I knelt behind the backstop, closed my eyes, and prayed.  The sweetest sound I ever heard rang out as his bat sent that ball flying to center field.  He won.  He defeated his anger.  I think we won the game as well.

Had I not invested my time.  He might not have had that victory.

Because I invested time.  He is ready for this coming right of passage from boy to man.  He will be magnificent.  He knows how to think of others, he knows how to work and he knows how to master himself.  Not because I told him but because his mother and I invested our time and energy to show him.  It is an investment paying huge dividends.  I saw it on the screen.

William Boetcker – mentor – author – The Ten Cannots June 8, 2011

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William John Henry Boetcker  was an American religious leader and influential public speaker born in 1873 and died in 1962.

He was an ordained minister who gained attention as an eloquent motivational speaker.  He is best remembered for writing a pamphlet titled “The Ten Cannots” in 1916.  I find them appropriate for today’s thinking and share them with you as they were once shared with me.

  1. You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift.
  2. You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
  3. You cannot help little men by tearing down big men.
  4. You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
  5. You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich
  6. You cannot establish sound security on borrowed money.
  7. You cannot further the brotherhood of man by inciting class hatred.
  8. You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than you earn.
  9. You cannot build character and courage by destroying men’s initiative and independence.
  10. And you cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they can and should do for themselves.

Boetcker also spoke of the “Seven National Crimes”:[3]

  • I don’t think.
  • I don’t know.
  • I don’t care.
  • I am too busy.
  • I leave well enough alone.
  • I have no time to read and find out.
  • I am not interested.

May the wisdom of the ages distill upon our souls always.

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The Classics Only Get Better in Time June 8, 2011

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Stop your complaining and listen to these four actors speak about the difficulty of living their lives as children.

Hilarious!

A recent version of “The Four Yorkshireman” was created for television and you can see it here.<a href="” title=”The Four Yorkshireman – Updated Version” target=”_blank”>

What’d You Mean? June 8, 2011

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British comedy was not discovered by Monty Python.

Two Ronnies continue to flawlessly inject insanity into our drab and dreary world.

You can enjoy it <a href="” title=”Four Candles featuring the Two Ronnies”>here.

Michael